I agree that they need to make a profit. I don't really complain, but sometimes I just want to stand up and shout that I'm just an amateur and can make a better wine. I enjoy a glass while dining out and will continue to buy 1 or 2 glasses. One of the best I've had was a house merlot during happy hour at Bonefish Grill in Macon Georgia. I think it was $2.50. I had a Malbec here this weekend at an upscale restaurant in Statesboro Ga for $9.00 that was awful. I enjoy tasting and experimenting different labels.
Believe me, I hear you. The is the price you pay for really knowing wine. Disappointment is everywhere.
Once a year, as a birthday gift, I go out to dinner at this very upscale restaurant. I had gotten to know the sommelier, Bonnie, and had her taste some of my wines.
She was impressed. I asked her if she was just putting me on and that I am only interested in haring about any faults she may find. She told me that it needed more oak, but was shocked that it was home made.
Having her taste my wines gave her a perfect picture of the types of wine I go for. Ever since then, I simply give her a price range (under $100) and say "surprise me". She has yet to disappoint.
The problem is that I normally dine with at least 5 others. At $100 per bottle, it can get very pricey. Thank god it's only once a year and I have
gift cards I saved (from birthday and Christmas) that I cash in.
Perhaps you should do the same type of thing? I am not talking about spending a boat load of money, but if there is a local restaurant that you go to, and they have a decent wine list, you could have them taste your favorite home made to give them an idea of what you like.
Just, please, for the love of God, don't slip them any Welch's...