I liked the idea when making fruit wine or for that matter, wine kits with grapeskins and oak chips, to use a large strainer bag in the fermentation pail, that overlapped the top edges of the pail, and then have all the ingredients floating in there loose and able to have full contact, etc. It would require some sort of a punch down every day to submerge the fruit cap. When fermentation was complete, it was simple to wring out the strainer bag and remove the pulp. This to me seemed like a better option than to use a muslin bag that you get in wine kits tied up with a knot which tended to float to the top and was hard to keep submerged, plus I always wondered about the actual contact that resulted as it would float quite high in the must.
But I had the same issue using a large strainer bag in a fermentation pail and them trying to stir the must daily. What I ended up doing is putting a heavy clear glass plate on the bottom, let's call it a weight plate, about 2 lbs., and it would do two things - one provide a flat smooth bottom for stirring purposes, and second, it would weigh down the strainer bag so it would not float up or get in the way of stirring. I had first used an ordinary stoneware plate, but found that the rim on the bottom of the plate reacted with the wine must and so then used just clear glass heavy dinner plates. I also found using fine mesh strainer bags was not a good idea, as it was so hard to wring out when you want to remove the pulp, they seemed to plug off with the sludge and made it very hard to strain out. So I switched to coarse strainer bags used in beer making and found it much easier to wring and squeeze out when you are done.
However, after reading Johnd's response, i.e. "put a large fermenting bag into a spare fermenting bucket and dump your fermenter into it, then slowly withdraw the bag, leaving the wine behind, then simply squeeze as much juice out of the bag full of pulp as you can"; this even makes more sense to me than what I am doing, why fight the strainer bag in the fermentation pail at all, just throw everything into the pail without a strainer bag, when the time comes to transfer, a syphon will take most of the clear wine out before plugging off with pulp, grapeskins oak chips, or whatever. At that point, you would put a strainer bag in a spare fermentation pail and just pour the remainder of the must into it and then wring it out and remove all the pulp. This sounds much simpler to me and I plan to try it next time.
I tend to do both primary and secondary fermentation in the same fermentation pail, after the primary is nearing completion, I snap down the lid after installing an airlock in it and leave it there until the secondary fermentation is done also, then transfer to a glass carboy for degassing. It eliminates one transfer and allows for longer contact time for the fruit pulp or grapeskins in the case of wine kits. It is usually complete in 14 to 21 days. I found the strainer bag to be a bit of a hassle then as you need to tie into a knot or put an elastic around the top part of bag before secondary fermentation so I could get a good seal when snapping down the lid. Using Johnd's method would eliminate this hassle too as there would not be a strainer bag to deal with.
Always amazes me that no matter how many years of doing the same thing, and thinking this is as good as it gets, this wine forum brings up new ideas that makes you reconsider and try a different method instead.