Yes, gross lees refers to all the junk that (typically) falls to the bottom. It is mostly dead yeast cells. (For example, you get gross lees even if you ferment pure juice with no fruit in it.) I would describe it generally as "a slurry."
I do not know why you did not see any gross lees (unless it was what you are calling a "sort of pulpy liquid"). Did you, by chance, stir or otherwise agitate your wine just prior to racking to secondary?
I do not know why you did not see any gross lees (unless it was what you are calling a "sort of pulpy liquid"). Did you, by chance, stir or otherwise agitate your wine just prior to racking to secondary?