-----%<-----Think that bread yeast made the abv a little higher than most of the wines I make. Least the burn test going down says so
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No, actually that's a false result. Bread yeasts are designed as CO2 producers to "prove" breads while making them, whereas wine yeasts are selected for there ability to produce alcohol.
The "alcohol hot" taste (I think of it as "medicinal", whereas Ken Schramm likens it, in his book, to Listerine) can show through on meads of any strength, but yes, it does age out/mellow. It's one of the reasons that a lot of commercial meaderies will make their offerings quite sweet, with a high finished gravity, because the sugars can mask that flavour so it's drinkable/saleable earlier.
It's been "guesstimated" that JAO will be in the region of 10 to 11 % ABV (YMMV of course). Because if you did measure it at the start, you'd find that you only get the reading from the honey in water, the sugars in the fruit won't have mixed in, whereas they will have done by the time it's finished.
Meads are strange beasts, not always seeming "good" or right when young, which is why they're often aged not just for months, but years.......
Either way, well done on getting it sorted out and I hope it turns out good (as I suspect it will).