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@Gilmango I am wishing you the best of luck. But if you got those Brentwood grapes through calwinebroker.com (Michael) they are very problematic for unknown reasons. Maybe you got from a different source, I hope so. I had problems with those in 2019 and another member on this forum is having problems now in 2021.
You need to follow your fermentation with a hydrometer. There is no other way. Sure, eventually the cap won't float but by then you are way behind by several days. Press when your brix hits single digits. I like to press at 1 brix and let it finish in carboys or stainless kegs.
MLF is up to you. I'd do a controlled addition any time, but your call. The sooner the better. Relying on mother nature may work, but it may not too, and you'll be left with unstable wine. You do not want to prevent MLF in a red wine. Instead, you want to make sure it happens. And the last thing you want, is for it to happen in the bottle, because it will and lead to bottle bombs and fizzy wine.
With regards to pressing, I have a wine making friend who only does free run wine. He does not press. He makes very good wine. In your case, you would loose about 20% of your yield but it's not crazy. The bucket press thing looks like it would work, do that if you can't rent a press.
Regarding the Speidel containers-they look good, but they are very hard to completely fill without any airspace. They are actually made for making beer. The vessel wall is thin and fairly permeable to Oxygen. Wine is a much longer process. You will want to exclude oxygen. You might consider carboys which are much easier to fill with only a tiny fraction of airspace and are impermeable to oxygen. I have another winemaking friend that uses Speidel containers and his wine has excessive VA and ethylacetate. After fermentation, air is the enemy. Be ruthless and eliminate it from your wine. Eliminate surface area where ever you can. Once you've gotten good at the process, the you can consider controlled oxygen ingress like barrels or Flextanks.
Like I said, good luck. WIne needs a good start and then lots of time. Pay attention to details. Exclude Oxygen. Eliminate headspace. In 2-3 years, you'll know how you did!