I would say my Pet-Nat was a qualified success. It's good enough that I opened a bottle to have with dinner last night (and enjoyed it), but there are still some wrinkles to iron out.
The flavor is quite good but if anything a bit too much of a good thing. It's also a little bitter; I know I can fix both of these deficiencies by adjusting down the amount of elderflowers and/or steeping time.
The wine is also very highly carbonated - hard to open without the contents gushing out. You have to chill it well and put your thumb over the bottle top immediately after opening, then slowly bleed off some of the CO2. Of course this means that the resulting wine is cloudy with yeast, but to some extent that comes with the Pet-Nat territory.
I like the suggestion above in this thread of doing a pilot fermentation to get some sense of what the final, dry brix/SG is going to be, then use that value to decide when to bottle. I just bottled at 1.1 brix/1.004SG, which seems in line with some of the suggestions above but which will have produced champagne levels of fizz if my final brix/SG was much less than 0.0/1.000. I did also make a still elderflower wine that went down to -1.9 brix, though the recipe was a bit different so not directly comparable.
My recipe, for the record, was loosely based on
this one. He says to bottle at SG 1.010, which I fear would have taken me into exploding bottle territory...