First, my experience with barrels is only a few years. I purchased 10 yo barrels and have kept them full, so I don't have your situation. I plan batches so that I have sufficient topup wine to keep them full, and as I said, one wine comes out, the barrels get cleaned, and the next one goes in.
I have a 1/2 gallon barrel that is supposedly a party decanter -- it sat in my attic for 25 years before I decided to play with it. No, I don't have a purpose, I am just experimenting with it. The barrel had gaps (1/4" wide) but by submerging it for 2 weeks, I got it to seal. From the outside, it looks like it has gaps, but it holds water. I have to keep it filled, else it dries out quickly, and leaks.
Based upon that experience, in your place I'd keep the barrel full as it eliminates the drying out problem.
Sure, you'll lose oak essence, but the barrel will be good as a container. Personally, I like neutral barrels as I can leave the wine in as long as I desire (not possible with new smaller barrels) and I add oak cubes to flavor the wine as I choose. The barrels are French oak, but I've used various types, so the barrels are whatever I want them to be.
Another option is to purchase 3 kits, which will keep the barrel full until you need it again. My 2021 grape purchase was scotched, so I filled the barrels with FWK kits, and I'm very pleased with the results so far.