An orphan at 65

[Kraffty]

Pic of mom when she came out with us to help as we moved here to Cottonwood in the dead of a winter storm. We had no furniture, kitchenware or spare clothes for a week while waiting for the moving truck to show up. Made do with stuff bought from walmart and goodwill and had more fun than would ever had been expected. Her joyful and positive nature will live on in those of us who knew her.

2 years ago my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer. 5 days ago she passed away. She survived much longer than ever expected. While we were working our way back from our vacation my brother called to say she decided she was done with all of the treatments but wanted hospice involved so she could stay at home but not be in any pain. We were able to be with her for the last few days, say we love you, hug and listen to a few of her last wishes before she was sedated pretty much 24 hours a day. The one thing that brings us comfort is knowing she was tired of the fight and ready to rest.

Tell your loved ones you love them, do it often, you may not be as fortunate to have the chance when the time comes.

I haven’t abandoned the group, even though it may seem so lately, just wanted to explain why I’ve been MIA and that I’ll be back after everything is handled towards the end of the month.

 

[Jovimaple]

So sorry for your loss.

 

[David Engel]

Prayers for you and your family!

 

[ibglowin]

So sorry to hear this Mike. Glad you were able to make it back in time and spend a few more days with her.

 

[wood1954]

Sorry to hear of your loss. As my wife and I have aged we’ve lost all our aunts, uncles and parents, it never gets easy. Enjoy your cousins and siblings.

 

[winemaker81]

Sorry for your loss

 

[BigDaveK]

Very sorry for your loss.

I have a couple people, even though they've been gone for years, pop into my head daily. On a good day I smile. On a bad day... I don't.

 

[crushday]

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Pic of mom when she came out with us to help as we moved here to Cottonwood in the dead of a winter storm. We had no furniture, kitchenware or spare clothes for a week while waiting for the moving truck to show up. Made do with stuff bought from walmart and goodwill and had more fun than would ever had been expected. Her joyful and positive nature will live on in those of us who knew her.

2 years ago my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer. 5 days ago she passed away. She survived much longer than ever expected. While we were working our way back from our vacation my brother called to say she decided she was done with all of the treatments but wanted hospice involved so she could stay at home but not be in any pain. We were able to be with her for the last few days, say we love you, hug and listen to a few of her last wishes before she was sedated pretty much 24 hours a day. The one thing that brings us comfort is knowing she was tired of the fight and ready to rest.

Tell your loved ones you love them, do it often, you may not be as fortunate to have the chance when the time comes.

I haven’t abandoned the group, even though it may seem so lately, just wanted to explain why I’ve been MIA and that I’ll be back after everything is handled towards the end of the month.

Mike,

Incredibly tough news to read about your mom. I'm glad you had that time with her when that picture was taken.

 

[JBP]

So sorry to hear about your loss, Mike. Cherish your memories and hold close to family and friends as you walk this difficult path.

 

[sour_grapes]

My condolences, Mike. Very glad you got some time with her.

 

[ChuckD]

So sorry for your family’s loss. It’s a lovely picture.

 

[cmason1957]

So sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[CDrew]

Sorry too. I was an orphan at 63. My parents died within 6 months of each other in the last 12 months. Very sad news. Cherish the memories of them.

 

[Retired teacher]

It’s tough to lose loved ones. Stay strong.

 

[Boatboy24]

So very sorry to hear about this, Mike. Glad you have such great memories - they'll always be with you.

 

[David Violante]

So sorry Mike~ glad you had some time with her…

 

[mikewatkins727]

God has blessed you with the extended time to say goodbye to a loved one. Cherish those moments as I have with my mother.

 

[mooreg20]

So sorry for your loss x

 

[jswordy]

Just now seeing this. Sorry your mom has passed. That is tough to go through. I'll bet she'll stay with you, though, and visit your thoughts even years from now.

 

[joeswine]

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Pic of mom when she came out with us to help as we moved here to Cottonwood in the dead of a winter storm. We had no furniture, kitchenware or spare clothes for a week while waiting for the moving truck to show up. Made do with stuff bought from walmart and goodwill and had more fun than would ever had been expected. Her joyful and positive nature will live on in those of us who knew her.

2 years ago my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer. 5 days ago she passed away. She survived much longer than ever expected. While we were working our way back from our vacation my brother called to say she decided she was done with all of the treatments but wanted hospice involved so she could stay at home but not be in any pain. We were able to be with her for the last few days, say we love you, hug and listen to a few of her last wishes before she was sedated pretty much 24 hours a day. The one thing that brings us comfort is knowing she was tired of the fight and ready to rest.

Tell your loved ones you love them, do it often, you may not be as fortunate to have the chance when the time comes.

I haven’t abandoned the group, even though it may seem so lately, just wanted to explain why I’ve been MIA and that I’ll be back after everything is handled towards the end of the month.

I enjoyed your chats