For my fruit wines, I usually aim for pH 3.4 or so. If this was my wine, I would not try to raise the pH at all. Just backsweeten to reduce the bite and bring out the fruit flavor. Berries are somewhat acidic, so if you raise the pH very much the wine won't taste like berries any longer.
Leaving the pH where it is allows you to backsweeten to bring out the fruit flavor without making it taste sweet like a dessert wine. The sugar balances the acid.
Why do you want to cold stabilize? Cold stabilization is sometimes helpful for a wine that is difficult to clear. It also might reduce the amount of tartaric acid. The primary acid in blueberries and blackberries is citric acid, not tartaric, so I doubt that cold stabilization would change the pH.
Assuming that the wine is clear, I would go with...
4. Skip cold stabilize, don't adjust acid, stabilize with Kmeta and KSorbate, backsweeten to taste, and bottle.
Leaving the pH where it is allows you to backsweeten to bring out the fruit flavor without making it taste sweet like a dessert wine. The sugar balances the acid.
Why do you want to cold stabilize? Cold stabilization is sometimes helpful for a wine that is difficult to clear. It also might reduce the amount of tartaric acid. The primary acid in blueberries and blackberries is citric acid, not tartaric, so I doubt that cold stabilization would change the pH.
Assuming that the wine is clear, I would go with...
4. Skip cold stabilize, don't adjust acid, stabilize with Kmeta and KSorbate, backsweeten to taste, and bottle.