Bob I will try to put together a basic spray plan for you at some point soon, but for now I will just hit a few points.
First off, there aren't a ton of insect pests to worry about. Grape Flea Beetle (steely beetle), Rose Chafer, Japanese Beetle, Grape Berry moth, Skeletonizer and a few others. Only spray if the damage gets bad or lots of insects are present. Sevin works well, but is an indiscriminate killer so only apply iff absolutely necessary.
Then for diseases, you will need to worry about phomopsis, black rot, downy mildew, powdery mildew and botrytis. They all have their own times of the year and weather conditions to set them off and you need to get familiar with those. It generally only takes one or two fungicides to control all of them present at the time, so it isn't that bad.
For your area you can get the Midwest Spray Guide. Here we have the New York/Pennsylavania Guide. I will get you the links later.
We will get you on the right path soon.
You are doing a great job and we want to see you keep it up.