I calibrate mine before each use. It only takes 30 seconds. The most I have seen it off is about ~0.1 pH unit and usually less than that.
Yep,
Only the 4.0 since the wines pH is always between 3.2 - 3.9. If you use 4.0 and 7.0 your basically calibrated then between those values. Your better off with a single point 4.0 since your samples is usually so close to the 4.0 anyway.