Mollie - it's unanimous. Your wine is not yet ready to bottle. And, it's your wine that decides when it is time... not the instructions or your want to have the wines in bottle and ready to drink.
Degas... wait... degas... wait... degas some more.
Taste your wine - I didn't see in this thread that you've done that yet. What's it taste like? If it's sharp or acidic, it's still gassy. Bottle your wine when it tastes like it's done.
It's normal to have a wine aging in a carboy for 3, 6, 9 or 12 months. Again - It's ready when it's ready. And when it is - rack, dose, let it sit overnight, then bottle. Always, always, always bottle clear wine from a clean carboy.
Good luck and be patient.