As I've followed your thread, Bob, my heart goes out to you and your family in all this. It is one thing to have a 'disaster' and then deal with the outcome. It is entirely a different, and I can't help but think -- even worse -- thing, to know ahead of time that the Corps is going to flood you (because they are 'saving' towns elsewhere), knowing all the time (all those weeks and months!) as it happens, that damage is being done, but then not knowing the extent until it is all over. And only then beginning to deal with the aftermath.
I sense your attitude is far more positive than most people. Please keep that positive mental attitude -- you're an inspiration to me, and I'm sure the rest of your friends who occasionally "check in" on your thread, only to realize you continue to live this tragedy every day.
Dave