Do not separate the AF (active fermentation) from the EM (extended maceration), and do not fear the gross lees (there will not be any autolysis during EM). So don't do any racking between AF and EM. Start your AF in the Speidel, cover it with a towel like you usually do. Do your normal punch downs and monitoring of temperature and gravity, adding yeast nutrients, etc.
When AF is slowing down but not done (anywhere from 1.020 to 1.000, I tend to do this at the lower end around 1.005), you remove the towel and seal the fermenter up under airlock. Now you are continuing the EM phase, with just enough AF left to fill the headspace with CO2 (as AF continues to terminal gravity around 0995 or lower). From this point on, do not open the seal till EM is completed. No more punch downs, instead just rock the Speidel (or fermonster or big mouth bubble) to keep the skins moist, usually they will sink before EM is over. From here on there is no more measuring the gravity or temperature for this EM phase, as you don't want to lose your CO2 protection. The airlock should show you that the seal is working. Your EM started during AF, and it now continues in the same vessel for typically anywhere from 2-9 more weeks (3-10 weeks total from pitching yeast, including the AF).
When you open the seal your EM is done, it is time to rack off the skins, the gross lees, any oak or FPAC (fruit pack), into a carboy with no headspace, to begin your secondary / bulk aging process.