Chuck;
The keys are the direction the vapor travels and whether there is a condensing surface that is colder than the dew point in the path of travel. The second law of thermo-dynamics basically states that things move from more to less, from hot to cold, and from wet to dry ( learned this from also going to lectures by the Joe Lstriburek, the author of the link that was posted by JTS84. And since JTS84n shared he is a mechanical engineer he can probably explain this better than I can/did).
So the amount of moisture in the air in a cold room with high humidity is not typically greater than the amount of moisture in an interior habitable room, so the flow is into the cold room not into the warm room. The vapor retarder in the assembly is to stop the transfer/diffusion of moisture through the wall/ceiling components so that it cannot reach and therefore not condense on a colder surface in the wine/cold room. That interior cold surface would typically be the face of the drywall within the ceiling cavity. If the moisture in the air in the wine room was high enough to be a problem there would be mold beginning to form on the wine labels.
And this works provided that there are no holes in the assembly that allow for bulk air/moisture to move into the insulation packed ceiling from the warm side of the wine room. How could warm are leak into the insulated cavity? Heat ducts, fart fans, etc., if they are within the cavity and have leaky joints can dump lots and lots of air into a ceiling.
Hope this helps.