Tell ya the truth, the story about that kid is the way most lottery winners end up. There are a lot of news stories tracking the bad ends they mostly come to after winning.
I lived with a millionaire lottery winner when I was in college. Never knew how he got his money or that he was a winner until just before we graduated. He was a few years older than the rest of us. I always figured he was selling drugs and if he was I did not want to know about it. He did not flaunt the cash, but it was clear he had it.
He always had a nice diamond on a chain to give a girl he liked, etc. Heck, one day he showed up to his room and next thing I knew he was yelling, "Get your clothes back on and get the h--- out of here!" Pretty soon here comes this awesome looking girl still putting on some of her clothes and shoes from out of his room. I guess he'd walked in there and she was laid out on his bed naked waiting for him. Hey, he had money!
So the day before graduation, Stan says to me, "You know, I'll never see you again, but you know I have had money." I nodded and said yes, I thought so. "Because I'll never see you again, I'll tell you it's because I won the Illinois State Lottery."
This was back in 1980. He won in '76, back when a million bux was really a lot of dough.
He went on: "Let me tell you, it ruined my life. Everybody I knew was hitting me up for money - my friends, my relatives, everyone. I lost all my friends because of it. So I just left Chicago all of a sudden, enrolled here to finish up my college degree, and started over. I have never told anyone. That's the only way to get real friendships, is not to let people know you have the money. It ruins them otherwise."
He showed me a newspaper clipping saying he'd won. Then he left me with the quote I have remembered ever since:
"You know, it's a funny thing about money. It cuts two ways. When you don't have it, you are always wanting to get your hands on it. When you do, you are always looking over your shoulder trying to figure out who's sneaking up behind you to take it away from you."
After that day, I never saw Stan again.