I think you are good to go. Other than the color of your trash can, my batch looks the same. I tend to pick out the larger stems, but I believe there are some tannins in the stems that will end up in the finished wine. I haven't made that varietal yet, so not sure if you should be limiting tannins or not. If I add any sulfite I usually do it right after crush, about 12 to 24 hours before adding the yeast. If you decide to add pectic enzyme of some sort (I usually add Lallzyme EX) to get some extra color out of those skins, you want to hold off adding the yeast for another 24 hours (and any additional tannins as well, such as Tannin FT Rouge, as they will bind with the enzyme and precipitate out). Hope your are having as much fun as I am with your batch of grapes.
Edit: Now that I think of it, do you have a way to test the pH and maybe the TA (titratable acid) in the wine? Always nice to know these things as too high or two low of a pH might be easier to address now verses later down the road. They can be addressed after fermentation, but sometimes the options to change those values are more limited. Just a thought.