This thread is like opening a can of worms a lot of opinions but as a commercial winemaker some things that I do personally for wines that will help you to make better home wines are as follows.
I highly recommend if you can afford it you get a product called Zymaflore Egide, you do not need to sulfite grapes if you use it it’s a blend of yeasts that do not ferment but colonize a must and prevent oxidation and spoilage due to microbes.
I also recommend cold soaking your grapes for 2-5 days if you can, use dry ice it will chill down the must and turn into carbon dioxide and will actually help to keep oxygen at bay during soaking and keep microbes at bay and help to soften your wine and produce a wine with better body and better integrated tannins.
I also recommend adding opti red in the proper dosage for your volume of wine to help with extracting better color. I also recommend adding yeast nutrients either Fermaid K or Nutristart from Laffort.
What we did at work is take about 20-30% of the grapes leave them whole and on the stems and put them directly into the bottom of the fermentation tanks and then crush and destem the rest of the grapes and add them on top, the grapes below will break open under the weight and during fermentation and we find that it produces a richer and bolder wine we do this with all reds but it is particularly useful with Syrah.
I recommend that no matter which yeast you use you add it to 4-6 ounces of warm water about 80-90 Fahrenheit tops with a dosage of nutrients and let it sit covered for 20-30 minutes before adding to the wine must this helps to activate the yeast and wake it up and it will multiply faster and you will notice fermentation activity much sooner than pitching dry yeast directly into wine must.
Make sure you sanitize and punch down the skins at least 2-3 times a day initially do not let them dry out or they can grow mold, as fermentation slows down decrease how often you punch down the skins.
if you have grapes that are vegetal or slightly green add some oak cubes or chips during primary fermentation this will soften the aggressive vegetal or green flavors some grapes are known for.
I highly recommend that you get a bladder press if you can afford it otherwise use a basket press but go lightly cause skins and seeds will if pressed to hard make the wine butter and astringent so collect all free run juice and keep it separate from the pressed juice and taste it if the pressed juice is not overly tannic or bitter you can add it to the free run if it is then don’t blend it with the free run juice.
I would highly recommend using Lafforts B7 direct malolactic bacteria it’s about $20 and is very reliable and fast and can be added directly into your wine, I like that it has a higher tolerance of sulfites and ph than other strains and has a higher alcohol tolerance. You can add oak cubes during malolactic as you will get better integration of the oak and the bacteria will cling to the wood and stay in suspension versus falling to the bottom of the tank or carboy.
I’ll finish with if you want a good reliable way to sanitize equipment use Star San.